When people start imagining their next home, their “wish list” of what they want it to have usually includes things like the number of bedrooms and baths, a particular style of home, maybe a yard…or definitely not a yard for those who’d rather avoid mowing. Some buyers dream about fully updated kitchens and bathrooms, while others are perfectly happy with a fixer-upper so they can make it their own.
Having an actual list of wants and must-haves is smart. It keeps you (and the process) focused, and helps you know where you can bend and where you need to draw the line.
There are common themes, but no two lists are exactly alike. Even couples buying together often have wildly different visions—which is one of the many reasons why real estate agents joke about being part-time therapists as they help partners negotiate their wishlists.
But one thing the vast majority of buyers agree on and tops the list of must-haves might surprise you—it’s safety.
Safety and Low Crime Are the Top Two Priorities for Home Buyers
According to a recent Redfin survey, home buyers certainly do care about things like the number of bedrooms and bathrooms, square footage, or a spacious yard:
- 64% of buyers list the number of bedrooms as a must-have
- 63% care about overall square footage
- 62% want a yard or outdoor space
- 60% want a particular style of home
- 58% prioritize bathrooms
But surprisingly, the two features that rise to the very top are less about the house itself and more about the world around it.
Personal safety is non-negotiable for 78% of buyers, and 74% say they won’t compromise on living in a low-crime area. Even though the percentages are close, they represent slightly different concerns—one is about how safe you feel inside your home, and the other is about the environment around it—but together they anchor almost every decision buyers make.
In other words, while a shiny kitchen or a backyard pool is nice, most buyers aren’t willing to overlook a neighborhood that feels unsafe or a home that doesn’t protect their well-being. And the numbers show that when making tough compromises, safety and crime consistently outrank nearly everything else on a typical wishlist.
Why Agents Can’t Just Tell You If a Neighborhood Is “Safe”
When you’re house-hunting, it’s natural to want to know if a neighborhood is “safe” or “good,” and many buyers will ask their agents if an area is or not. However, if you ask, don’t be surprised if your agent seems hesitant or deflects.
The reason isn’t that they don’t know the area—it’s because they legally can’t provide that information.
While you can certainly rely on your real estate agent for a lot of help and advice, telling you whether an area is “safe” or not can be a tricky topic. For the most part, agents can’t advise you on whether or not an area or neighborhood is safe, due to rules, regulations, and liability.
For example, real estate agents are bound by the Fair Housing Act. Labeling a neighborhood as “safe” or “unsafe” could inadvertently lead to—or be interpreted as—discrimination based on race, religion, or other protected characteristics. It might even be seen as steering clients toward or away from certain areas, a practice that’s illegal under fair housing laws.
Even if agents were permitted to give their opinion on whether an area is safe, the concept is highly subjective. One person might consider a neighborhood safe based on crime statistics, while another might prioritize factors like street lighting, community engagement, or personal experiences. That subjectivity makes it hard for agents to provide consistent, objective guidance.
While they can’t directly answer whether an area is safe, agents can point you to resources so you can make an informed decision yourself. Let’s look at some of the useful things they often suggest when someone asks about neighborhood safety.
How to Get a Feel for Whether an Area Is Safe for You
Since your agent can’t simply tell you whether an area is safe, it falls on you to do a little digging. The good news is, there are plenty of ways to get a real sense of a neighborhood before you make a decision.
Here are some practical steps you can take to assess safety for yourself:
- Look up crime statistics online. Many police departments and independent sites provide up-to-date crime data for neighborhoods.
- Visit the local police station. Officers can often give you a general overview of the area and answer non-discriminatory questions about trends.
- Drive through the neighborhood at different times of day. Mornings, afternoons, evenings, and weekends can all feel very different.
- Spend a night or two in the area. If possible, rent an Airbnb or stay with friends nearby to experience the neighborhood firsthand.
- Talk to neighbors. People who live there can provide valuable insights on day-to-day safety, community engagement, and neighborhood culture.
- Observe local amenities and activity. Well-lit streets, maintained parks, and active community spaces can all be positive signals.
- Check online community groups or social media. Local forums, neighborhood apps, and social media groups often share updates about events, concerns, or issues in the area.
While no single step can give you a complete picture, combining several approaches will give you a well-rounded sense of whether a neighborhood feels right for you.
Safety is one of those factors that might not make it onto your written wishlist, but it’s still likely very important to you. Starting this research early—before your full-blown home search—arms you with knowledge and a true feel for an area. That preparation can save time, reduce surprises, and help you focus on homes in neighborhoods where you really feel comfortable living.
The Takeaway:
When it comes to buying a home, what tops your wishlist might not be the fanciest kitchen or the biggest backyard—it’s feeling safe where you live. Since agents can’t directly tell you whether a neighborhood is “safe,” it’s up to you to do a little homework. From checking crime stats and visiting the area at different times, to talking with neighbors or even spending a night there, these steps help you get a real sense of a community. Starting this research early gives you confidence, saves time, and makes it easier to focus on homes in neighborhoods where you truly feel comfortable calling home.
